30 Days of Pleasure Challenge.

Screw the New Year’s diets. Join me on a 30 Days of Pleasure Challenge. 

Last year I embarked on my own personal challenge- 30 days of pleasure. I had recently gotten divorced and moved to a new city. No matter which way you slice it my ego took a major blow with those two curveballs. My self worth took a dip. And that shitty self talk had been let in the party that was the thoughts in my head. Based on previous life experiences, I decided I was not going to go down the “poor me”, victim mindset mentality. I decided that I was going to own my role it all and pull myself up. And, I was going to date myself. I  was going to love myself back into sensuality and pleasure. I was going to romance and swoon myself. I was going to make my own panties drop. And I totally can say that I did. 

30 Days of Pleasure was my jump start. I had been reading a lot about pleasure and sexuality and intimacy. And I forget exactly what podcast interview I was listening to but a woman was sharing about how she started regularly masturbating and noticing that energy had shifted in her life. I was game. Motivation to masturbate? Yes, please. 

I decided I was going to masturbate for thirty days straight. (like The Whole 30?) I got my good friend to do it with me too. I came out hot. I touched myself in new and different ways the first two weeks. Sometimes even twice a day. I noticed that I was caring about what I was wearing and the fabrics and the way it felt on my body. I noticed that frustrating work related issues just rolled off my shoulder. I noticed that I carried myself a bit more elevated yet also still felt grounded. I was totally feelin’ myself.

Then the mid slumps happen, which happens everywhere, every relationship in life. I had won myself, but then my schedule got ahead of me and before I knew it I was digging myself out of the email weeds. There were two days in the middle where I missed completely. I did not touch myself at all for two days. I showered but it was like a save-the-water shower. 

I caught myself. I made myself slow down and take time out. I got back on my 30 Days of Pleasure Challenge. End of the third week, I met my friend in Los Angeles. We went to our regular Korean spa downtown. We spent the whole morning nourishing our naked bodies and chatting about our journeys inside the pleasure challenge. We both agreed that we had had so much fun so far. We also agreed that energy had shifted and will continue to shift within us. It was like we were finally stepping into our Queen, our next chapter. 

I invite you to join me for a 30 Days of Pleasure Challenge. The only thing you have to do is one pleasurable activity a day for 30 days. It can be touching yourself and masturabting or it can be as simple as putting oil all over your body. Start thinking about it. I’ll start my pleasure challenge in March or April. I’ll let you know so you can do it with me.